Jacob has some major melt downs.. WE have to just ignore them mostly.. I know his are from tiredness or hunger so we try and sort that out. He refues to day sleep (except on rare rare occasions)

I wonder if its just a developmental thing.. Asserting thier independance and all that. they are still little babies yet they think they are all grown up.

We are unable to get Jacob to apoligise. When he does something wrong to smeone or does something he just starts yelling im tired , im hungry.. When he refuses to listen at those times we remove him from that situation.. For example at home he gets taken to his room and told he can come out when he is ready to listen/apoligise. if out and about we will either take him to the car or go and sit on some seats somewhere