i know how you feel so i can definitely sympathise - hope she turns the corner real soon along with my little man - it's especially dificult for me as I am not shy at all - quite the extrovert so this is really very odd for me - on the other hand I did marry his father who absolutely can't stand to be the centre of attention - it's his worst nightmare - so fingers crossed they will eventually grow out of it but if not, there really isn't much you can do but offer support and love regardless - I know how tough it is....but we'll make it

ETA - maybe it hurts us more than them?? you can only hope....