altho most days i feel like the worst mum in the world, im still here, the kids are still noisily happy, so thats got to count for something...
i am a good mum because, im willing to admit when im wrong,
im more then happy to leave the house dirty when the kids want me to watch a movie or play cars with them
im more then happy to lay down and pretend to nap when bubba girl is overtired but wont give in
im a good mum as i just spent more on new shoes for the boys then ive spent on my own shoes in 2 yrs!!! only as they realy REALY wanted the expencive ones (and needed new ones!)

df is a good dad because he knows when ive had enough and can take over bed time, dinner ect
hes a good dad because like today, has taken one son out so the more naughty one is behaved and *hopefully* learns to stop back chatting!
hes a good dad when mums had enough he gets up and does the early morning bottles
and hes been even better lately doing some housework, telling me hes accepted my lazyness!!