Bugger, thought I'd posted last night!
Sorry for the sneaky news DP and I decided we would just play this one quietly this time and make no announcements. Something Yael posted about many moons ago just resonated!
DS is happy enough to suck still, even though he hops from side to side hoping for the best. I'm even happy for him to suck for ages because that initial tenderness is gone and it feels nice again.