angel i understand, although i see our boys as in yours and mine as still babys. not even 2 yet, i really don't think they need to be pushed yet. maybe when they are 3 it is appropriate for us to be encouraging them to get out a bit more on their own. i know with josh i pushed him more but after having the next 2 i realised he was still so little and i expected so much. oh well the first is always an experiment lol
good luck
beckles