I think the most important thing is to not give off the impression he has something to fear. And by that I mean its ok to console him, but sometimes when we over do it it is like telling them they had a reason to be afraid. Definitely don't push him or you'll end up with a more anxious little boy the next time he's in that situation. But try not to make a big deal of it iykwim?

I hope that makes sense

*hugs*
Cailin