Great thread. It's all been said!

Only one I can add is DS (2) goes to bed when we do... firstly because why battle? Secondly coz we like his company. Thirdly he sleeps in and I don't have to get up at the crack of dawn (I have to wake *him* up when he has daycare hahaha). Fourthly we can go out visiting at night or have our childless friends over, and DS is happy hanging out and playing while our other friends are stuck at home after 7pm.