thank you all so much!!!
altho maya (DD) still sleeps in our room, cot and all... We have actually turned her room into the spare room!!! She starts off in her cot, and then once she wakes and we cant get her back into her own bed, she comes in with us... Not that we mind at all....
I still dont get a chance to catch the news that much, sorry!
Should have said this originally, but we start off by explaining to her (she will be 9months next friday 20th) that it is not the time to party; then we move to her bed, when she gets upset shes back; then its rock her to sleep in the rocking chair, which also incurs the battle of the stubborn (it really sucks that both of her parents are stubborn souls) and finally once shes asleep a couple of hours later, she is in with us, cause we dont want to risk putting her in her cot!
With all that been said, we do love sharing our bed, and couldnt think of not doing it now; but the partying is killing us!!