If DD1 isn't ready, even a nice room specially for her won't make her go. I understand the sadness at the thought, I think we may have a little mourning coming of our own soon too, but for BFing, the co sleeping will probably follow. As much as I've often thought how nice it would be to not have to feed to sleep every night, or be comfortable at night and not be kicked, pinched, shoved or have a toddler sleep on my head the thought of it ending soon makes me sad too, I'm not ready, but if the LOs are then we might just have to get on and mourn