not sure how I'd word it, but I like joeve's suggestion. try not to feel bad, you're putting your dd first & that's the way it should be (in my opinion!). I can fully understand the frustration/feeling like people think you're being OTT about your little one... from breast feeding longer than 6 months (apparently he looks too big to still be breast feeding..?!) to not leaving my baby yet, it starts to feel like you're the abnormal one. but then I look at my healthy, happy little guy & I know I'm doing things just fine. sounds like you are too. : )