Oh we've got the pinching, scratching, biting, kicking & weeing here too! No spitting yet, lol.

Problem here is that I thing DS is too young for discipline. I'm just not sure what to use. If he hits with something I take it away & tell him he's not to hit, but when he hears that word he swings at me!
He's only 20 months old. I'm not sure what on earth to do. I'e tried everything.

ATM I've resorted to intervention & distraction when its another child, & no attention when he does it to me. If I give him attention he'll laugh & do it again, or crack it & get worse. I'm preayng its just a phase. That he has no idea how to handle his frustrations yet, so he takes it out on me, & he feels threatened when he takes it out on other kids. He's been hurt by them & needs to get in there first to make sure they stay away from his toy or what ever he's worried about.