I could say a lot more but I probably shouldn't...so let's just leave it at that. But I would feel exactly the same way as you.
Exactly. I am so glad I don't deal with mum. I don't think she's a bad parent or anything. But these things are all just so against my instincts as a parent and what I have done with my own babies. I am really trying to see things from her perspective and I don't want to say the wrong thing to her if I ever do need to deal with her (which is possible when I do full days sometimes). I know she would be doing it all from the best perspective for her family, no one wants to do the wrong thing by their baby or family. I just wonder if she's researched these things much, or if she's done much reading or what ever....?