So glad things are looking better for you ren. Re my post, i just meant I have really relaxed on the day sleeps and only put dd down if she's askng (pretty much what you described...patting boobs lol) and have found a new rhythm with one sleep and two sleeps alternating days. The days she only has one sleep make for a much better night, with seven hour stretches sometimes (I know...unbelievable)

GL with the night weaning!