The "bricks and more" stuff (the category on the Lego website) is aimed more at littler people. Simpler instructions. Not as many small pieces (but they still have small pieces in them). They are generally labelled "build and rebuild" and are tagged 4+. There is a new range rumored to be due out next year that addresses the slightly younger people with actual Lego instead of duplo (shop man posted on his fb page yesterday lol).

I'd probably suggest one of the generic packs with hundreds if Lego. Take out the small bits, jump on the website and download the inspiration designs. They go step by step through making lots of things using just basic bricks. You can print them or save files to access on an iPad through kindle or similar (don't like dd associating Lego with needing ipad. If she wants the directions they are printed for her to use)