i'd go the statement - and do it very sarcastically! but that's just me! i've made a point of having a go about the same thing with my olds - mum has a poster size framed pic of bro and sil from their wedding, and a professional portrait of their first two kids same size. nothing from my wedding except some pics of bro's kids and things that we've given her - and she still hasn't gotten an updated picture of bro's kids - their third is now four!

i've volunteered to "take on" responsibility of getting the present for my intellectually disabled aunt in our SS next year to start it off - half way through the year she gets another great niece or nephew, so i'll be making a photo calendar with all four kids (sil and i will work together - think SIL will take on Mum for SS seeing we're organising it!) - each month their will be a different kidlet - and around special months we'll do group shots (like a Christmassy one of all four, maybe something for easter...)