Kind of. Our past dates have included:
Cinnamon donuts, eaten sitting on the kerb (morning tea)
Shopadocket pancakes at a dodgy cafe
Tropical fruit picnic in a park
Takeaway pizza
Nothing
Heart shaped croutons in homemade soup
Went away for a romantic weekend (with the baby)

We never buy cards or presents or anything, but this year, a friend is hosting a girls only card making day, so we're getting together to drink bubbly and eat nibblies and do craft.