Thanks tellytubby
She's not able to work cause she's on dialysis (kidney failure) and even though we're struggling to pay even a cent off our credit card (10K limit, already spent 5K on it in the 5 months we've had it but it has been only used for bills, petrol or food shopping - we're putting on $100 but then spending $150), her hubby is working so much right now just to pay for the hospital bills and household bills and they're not eligible for anything from C/link because according to them, her hubby earns too much (even though he's casual and not earning that much) that I thought it was probably the best way I could help her out. It was only $80 worth of food, but like I said, it helps.
She won't ever get a job either (at least I don't think so) with all her health problems. If it's not her kidneys, it's the leaky valve in the heart. They can't fix the kidneys until the valve settles and the valve won't settle while her kidneys are the way they are :s So, it's a catch 22

Well, just organized dinner with my dad and grandmother So we now have a full day. Lunch with my ILs (we got her a DVD set of a show on Foxtel, Ace of Cakes) and dinner with my dad and grandmother. Love it!