Thanks again everyone.

If an emergency came up and the only choice to save a life was to drive I would even if I didn't have my license. I can actually drive. If we were doing an interstate trip and DH had a heart attack and we were in the middle of nowhere I wouldn't hesitate to drive to the next house/village. In all my years i have never "needed" to drive but I can drive. If a person gets injured or is desperately ill we call the ambulance, that's what they are for. So that argument doesn't really sway me.

Kim: I agree though it's a great skill to have. So if i do it I'll do it because I want to be as well educated as I can be in all aspects of life. I am a big believer in conquering fears.

Psychologically i have a barrier. It is the impeding other people thing. I was raised with humilation and shame at being a "ball and chain". My mother was very impatient. If I am in somebodies way i will do almost anything to get out of it. I get so incredibly nervous if i am in somebody's way because I expect attack. I am highly observant to this end. I will however stick up for the rights of my children. I know that my 6yo hates the heat just as much as I do and for HIM I would learn to drive.