Not agreeing to cancel a transaction on ebay, am i being rude???

[Marlene]

Ok, I get ya You can dispute it and not let her cancel the transaction...but I suppose eBay still can't MAKE her sell it to you. You can give her bad feedback though, and eBay may close her account.

[Cocolove]

I might try and come to an agreement with her, it comes with things i dont need like the bassinette & an isoki nappy bag i would be happy for her to keep those & sell them again...what do you think?

[Ozziehoffy]

I agree with Erin, she either wants a certain amount or has found someone who has offered her an amount so she needs to change it to buy it now so they can buy it. Mind you, you're not supposed to do this either! If you list as auction, you're supposed to let it run it's course, that's just how it is. I don't think she's going to come to an agreement... to be honest, I would skip that and lodge a complaint and dispute.

[Cocolove]

, I would skip that and lodge a complaint and dispute.

I dont think I can unless ive paid and not recieved my item??

[Ozziehoffy]

hmmmm not sure, haven't done anything on eBay for a while... should be able to do something though cos she's not honouring you winning the item. She's renegging on it.

[Cocolove]

Perhaps we can come to an agreement, I have spoken to live help on ebay & they said we are both in a legal binding contract to commit to the purchase but i realise its not the amount you would have hoped for, im happy to pay that & for you to keep the bassinette. Im just waiting on my bugaboo camelson to sell and i can make payment! Let me know what you think?

I have sent her this

[kimmi]

You can put in a dispute and try to claim it, but at the end of the day, if she sells it to someone else, there is no pram to fight over. I hope she honours the sale for you, but really, it's only legally binding if you intend on pursuing it through the legal system.

[Cocolove]

shes the 3rd seller in 4 days to do this to me the others were off gumtree though, they both had better offers and sold after saying i could buy it and me organising people to pick up and courier!!

[Marlene]

Make sure you give her neg feedback and explain in your feedback what happened. If you leave feedback first, she can write anythign in yours and make you look bad too.

[Cocolove]

How long should I wait before leaving the feedback??

[aussienic]

Wait till it is sorted through ebay.. Or at least till after the weekend..

[*Beema*]

Oh how frustrating!!!

I have it from the other end at the momnet, someone bought my item ($700 worth ) and now won't pay grrrrrr!!!

Definitely go onto the Live Help through EBAY, I did it this afternoon and they were sooo helpful, literally chatting with you there and then, they even retracted some fee's off my account due to be screwed over by a twat who isn't paying and hasn't contacted me. You can opena Dispute as well, I did that before I chatted with Live Help

You can change an auction to a BIN and auction, BUT what it does it restarts the auction again, but it can't be done once bids are in place.