Welcome Dot Face! Glad you found your way here.

i think i have decided not to have another one, at least not now. Have been playing press your luck but finally organised some hormonal contraception. i think this is a good thing.

I got a lovely card for DS birthday from my back up midwife, who did my post natal care. Was lovely to be remembered. I think it must be more personal for the midwives too, cos they see us in our homes rather than a stream of women in a hospital room that could blur into each other.