Oh, I meant to ask the other day after PZ pointed something out to me... Are all three of my midwives (primary/secondary/backup) supposed to be at my birth plan meeting? At my last appointment, I met my backup midwife and she kept talking about it, and without thinking I made my next appointment with her. It didn't register until afterwards that I wasn't completely sure whether this is supposed to be the birth plan meeting (which I'd rather have with Kelly or Jan) or a regular appointment I suppose in the long run it won't matter - will it? -but wouldn't it be best to discuss these things with the two people that are meant to be there rather than the backup? I can't believe I didn't think about what I was doing, making that appointment...