Thanks guys *hugs* I wish I'd thought of that earlier re: the whole giving people a rough idea of where I'm at rather than the edd. I know they're excited and mean well but OH MY GOD IT'S GRATING to no end...plus I am more excited than anyone, ya know being the one who has been through all the nausea, back aches, sleepless nights, heart burn, pelvic pain etc etc just to bring this bub earth side but you don't see me asking myself WHERE'S THE BABY, for crying out loud!

And yeah I was planning on telling a few people like SIL and a couple of close friends when I go into labour but stuff that, man! Only dh and whoever else will be at the birth will know. The pressure of being asked "where's the baby?" is hard enough dealing with now let alone when I'm trying to get through contractions etc. Hmph! Feels good to rant here among people who get it!