Teni- how is DH coping with it?

Yep quick births are full on even with a build up.

DH and I chatted a lot about Zoe's birth for us to process it, he was pretty shocked over the whole thing too and my body took a far hit from it being less then 30min. We also had to block out a lot of your 'lucky' nothing went wrong comments... Umm yes because even if it wasn't a planned hb what do you think would have happened people? Anyway this shouldn't be about me it's your time.


Thankfully you had your midwives there!! And your mum and dd. Just take your time to sort through what happened and talk to your midwives about it to. They will help you process.