Don't you buy into that rubbish mrs. Your body is perfect and it will do what it knows how to do. It doesn't need help to sneeze or to poo or to make wee. Why would it need help to go into labour? It is just that labour rarely happens at the timing of other people, that we have created a culture that loves to control the onset of labour. Just relax and do the things that nurture your body and you and it will do it all by itself. If part of that means more privacy and turning off your phone, then so be it. You are gonna do a great job.