hi girls!

marcellus: i would think that it would be fine. Like meow said, the first and second tri appts are quite spaced out (4-6 weeks) and i too found it hard to know if we could get a good connection happening (we got along well, but you know that kinda connection that you want from an IM who will be welcoming this baby with you ITMS). i have found that since hitting the final trimester and our appts getting down to every 2 weeks has BEEN GREAT! simply seeing her more often has really helped solidify the relationship.
i reckon that if you feel a bit disconnected that you should organise (finances permitting of course) to just have her come over for an extra session, even if it is not a 'necessary' appt IYKWIM. sometimes just knowing that they can come and do that is enough to get things back on track.

AFM: well i had a similar moment as Marcellus today lol! i thought our appt was today, but forgot that she goes on holiday this week so just checked my diary and have to wait til next week...nooooo! i really look forward to these meetings, so am bummed (also bummed at my shocking memory for fooling me lol!).