I would be devastated Tegam. I am one of those ppl that never want to put people out so acquiese rather easily to them (rather than speak up and demand the attention that I need).

That said, even for me, 2 weeks is too long between drinks so to speak, so i would call her up and beg her to come sooner as you are feeling emotional and not in the right headspace for the birth (speak openly about it, it's what she is working from ITMS). I am certain that she will come then...i think that once you are beyond that first or even second baby, you are treated as a bit of an 'old hand' that knows the ropes and our overworked IMs sometimes rely too much on that instead of showering us in enough love and support. Maybe go into character and try to remember how you were as a first timer and demand lots of answers and ask lots of questions lol! that might get her around haha!