Hi ladies, thank you for the replies! I've mostly avoided the topic of homebirth because I'm vbac as well. I'm actually petrified someone will somehow find out and report my IM. She even tried to tell me it's highly unlikely, but I would feel so guilty if it happened. I know a number of people linked to people in midwifery, and I'm not sure their feelings on HB. One of them is my MIL's sister, and works at the hospital that I plan to book in at...
Anyway, I'm sure it will all work out towards the end... I think just telling people I trust for now is best...