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thread: Homebirth General Discussion #3

  1. #271
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
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    Ha Mel that's awesome, yay for a house birth Sounds like much of a muchness to me. So glad it worked out for you!

    So I have a question in regards to pools...I'm in Melbourne, and giving birth in winter (brrrrrr!) how do I keep the pool warm? Refilling with new hot water won't work as we have a TINY hot water service, and it's all electric which can be a bit $$, bit really the size of the thing is the problem. We're wanting to hire one, can you get heated ones? Or a heater of some sort for the water? And does anyone know a good place to hire pools on Melb (or if I can get them through Sunshine program?)

  2. #272
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    vic
    2,886

    Arimeh's Eden: That's great!

    PZ: you could always boil water on the stove in big pots? other then that I can't help you with your other questions.

    Marcellus: How are you going?

  3. #273
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    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
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    OMG Mel thats fantastic news! Sounds like a lovely place and guess what they alost orgnise everything for you and clean up! Perfect!

    Also so hot news off the press


    IM BACK! Hopefully i can arrange a HBMW in the next few days or it will be a planned freebirth WHATEVER you call it i dont care IM BACK!


    Long story but DH and i went for a hospital OB appointment and just both left thinking "oh this is crap" So we are on! Its a pity it took so long for DH to come around again and I am disappointment i become a sucker in the medical system again. Right or wrong it was a roller coaster we needed to ride but i am so glad to be back!

  4. #274
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    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
    8,065

    PZ: just have pots of water on the stove and the kettle going. our hot water could only fill about a 1/3 on ours but you always put the cold in first and then add the hot and use the pots and kettle to top up. put the birth pool on some blankets. we used those wool hospital style ones. then you have the plastic tablecloths on top of those. i also recommend getting a big plastic sheet from somewhere like clarks rubber and having that to lay ontop of the pool when/if you get out. as it stands in a room that is heated at 21 degrees the pool should stay warm for a good couple of hours (im thinking of my "made in water" inflatable). it will lose like 1/2 a degree every hour on average, so enough time to keep topping up. we hired ours from our midwive practice. check out midwives naturally as they might hire out even if you are not going through them as it is just one of the mws that has them and hires them out seperately ITMS.

  5. #275
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    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    Thanks guys! I didn't even consider pots on the stove! And I'll definately check that website, thanks Cassius!

    Tegam, YAY great news!

  6. #276
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2005
    Blue Mountains
    5,086

    Hi everyone thought I'd join this thread. Now we know we have a healthy little bub growing.. I can start getting excited about my home birth! I'm seeing my midwife again on Monday after we get back from our holiday and I soo can't wait for the antenatal visits to be at my house lol.

    Quick rundown for those that don't know much about me.. I've had obstetric care for both my pregnancies, for no other reason really than having a say in who my dr is at the end if the day (oh plus the private hospital is just sooo much nicer lol) I have a history of kicking my babies out early.. 37wks and 34wks.. With my 34 weeker being a monster baby at 3.5kg! My pregnancies tho have been healthy, no GD or blood pressure issues. So this time I'm hiring a private midwife and hoping to get to June 2011 to be able to birth at home.

    I'm still booking in to the public hospital since there is a chance I could go early again. Because I'm on metformin to fall pg, I saw an ob there who then wanted me to continue with obstetric care because of the preterm risk. However, they didn't offer me anything much in the way of care.. all they planned to do was a couple of extra scans to check my cervix and if it was looking short they'd give me some steroids for bub. That was it!! So I'm not going obstetric anymore.. If they can't prevent my preterm labour then why would I see them? They can give me steroids on the day just like they did with kayla if need be. They said to stop metformin around week 14 so that's all I really needed to know from them hehe.

    Plan is to see my private midwife, keep a close eye on myself staying hydrated and well. Keep an eye on any suspicious contractions and hopefully catch them in time to slow or stop them and just try and hold this one in til June

    Anyway, I'll look forward to chatting and planning with you girls

  7. #277
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    Bah. My body is holding onto this baby and never letting go

    Good for you Tegam!

    Sounds like a plan Liz

  8. #278
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
    14,682

    Bah. My body is holding onto this baby and never letting go
    Nah he/she is just waiting till their birthday to be born thats all. Start shaking that booty girl!!!

    ETA - Welcome Liz!!!

  9. #279
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    Sep 2008
    Perth
    73

    THANKS GALS!

    Birth pool situation is under control, phew!!!

    Now to sit back and wait for bub...

    Sarah

  10. #280
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    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
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    Nah he/she is just waiting till their birthday to be born thats all. Start shaking that booty girl!!!

    :

  11. #281
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    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
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    THANKS GALS!

    Birth pool situation is under control, phew!!!

    Now to sit back and wait for bub...

    Sarah
    And wait and wait and wait hehe!

  12. #282
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
    1,385

    Hello Ladies!

    Well, i was feeling a bit down last week for a variety of reasons! Firstly i was spotting and cramping (which has all settled down for now, touch wood!) AND i emailed my midwife who told me she no longer works on the CMP so cannot be my midwife again!

    She also told me that with all the trouble i had after having Archie (PPH, retained placenta, missed m/c, retained product, d&c, another big bleed) that it would be unlikely that i would be accepted into the program again anyway as i am higher risk of bleeding again. So, needless to say, i was feeling a bit lost and the thought of having my baby in a HOSPITAL terrifies me!

    So today i picked myself up and dusted myself off and thought i'd better get onto it so phoned the CMP to get them to send out my application form. I had a good conversation with one of the midwives there who made me feel a bit better about the situation and told me that it is unlikely that the events following the d&c would affect my application as they were not a 'natural' occurence so it's really just the PPH and retained placenta that may be my issue.

    I have absolutely EVERYTHING crossed that i can birth at home again but if i can't i am hoping they'll still allow me to go through the program but just birth in the hospital at the end. The midwife said to me today that this may be a possibility so fingers crossed.

    Sarah, Glad to hear you have a pool sorted!

    Mel, YAY on your house birth!!!

    Marcellus, oh i remember that feeling You definately WILL NOT be pregnant forever, i promise you that! xx

    Liz, Sounds like a plan Stan!

    Tegam, WELCOME BACK! Must be a good feeling!

    xxx

  13. #283
    Registered User

    Jun 2005
    USA
    3,991

    Loving the vibe in here at the moment- lots of good HBing news

    AE- lots of women who live remote move to have a HB near a major hospital. So they don't HB actually at their home but it's still a HB- I think yours is the same. Saying you are going to a birth centre doesn't really describe it compared to the birth centre I went to. And at least you can go their in early labour and avoid the crappy car ride as they're not going to have you on the clock like a hospital.

    SM- SO glad you have your pool. Beautiful birth blessings for you!!

    Marc- I know the feeling. This babewas born at 41 weeks and having had the first at 39+5 I hadn't expected to get that far. Baby will come earthside soon. Sending lots of beautiful birth blessings to you too

    Liz- Welcome!! When I talked to my MWs about transfer I realised I'm so glad I planned a HB regardless of if I had had to transfer. The hospital and postnatal support you would receive by having an IM even with a prem baby is huge. My MW attended a hospital birth at 34 weeks the day after my baby's birth and helped them avoid a c/s and negotiate SCN. Had I had a c/s and baby was taken to SCN for example,my MWs would have split up, one with me in recovery and one with my H and baby at SCN, and SMSed back and forth to keep me informed. I like those extra touches. Have fun planning your birth!

    Tegam- SOOO thrilled to hear the HB is back on! You've done a beautiful job growing that babe

    Stoked- Everything crossed for you with CMP!

    PZ- I hired a wooden pool through midwives naturally and I LOVED it. It had a heater in it that could maintain temperature (not heat the water up). One of my MWs suggested hiring one of those benchtop catering urns if you're short on hot water-plus boiling in pots etc. I've also read that you can use heaters from tropical fish tanks- not sure exactly how but could be worth looking into?

  14. #284
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
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    Stoked, hope you can get into the programme again. Sounds hopeful.
    I ended up being reassigned to Laura, she's new. There are quite a few new ones at the moment. I would have had Melissa as backup if baby had come on time, but now having Angela (will meet her tomorrow) - she just started, has been doing HBs down Bunbury way.
    Even a domino birth would be better than just going to hospital so fingers crossed that's your worst-case scenario.

  15. #285
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
    8,924

    what's a domino birth?

  16. #286
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    You have your midwives and home appointments but birth at the hospital

  17. #287
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    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
    8,065

    stoked i have everything crossed for you that you get your HB

    AE: that is i reckon a pretty awesome outcome! like Meow said, it's not like a normal hospital attached birth centre...can you visit the place a few times to get a sense and feel for it, so that when you do labour there you can 'claim' it IYKWIM?

    Marc: i am going to second Meow on this one as she said so well: beautiful birth blessings for you, your baby and family xx

  18. #288
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
    14,682

    AE: that is i reckon a pretty awesome outcome! like Meow said, it's not like a normal hospital attached birth centre...can you visit the place a few times to get a sense and feel for it, so that when you do labour there you can 'claim' it IYKWIM?
    Yeah its the same place where I had Eden, so I'm ok with going there (would prefer to be at home of course) but its the closest I can get... so I'll take it!! I just hope that I won't labour on the toilet for this one though, I'd actually like to get in the shower or the bath this time for pain relief!! lol

    Stoked - Hi kymmy!!

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