Ash: oh sweets! this is not cool, not cool at all!

i reckon this new IM will be the one!

that said, i reckon the IM that baulked at the 75 mins was a bit harsh. My IM was an hour and half away when i went into labour and she was attending the birth of another baby...and she was able to do it all! that said, if anything were to stop her we had a backup...argh! it is all so hard!! why can't we have REAL access to birth choices??!!!