Hey girls, thanks for the replies. It isn't that I don't know what would happen in case of emergency stuff. I have played those scenarios over in my head probably too much. My background is as an emergency nurse and DH is an emergency Dr. In that respect I know that the ppl around me will go into action and take care of me and transfer me to get me safe, and get my baby safe. It is more the little stuff. The insidious stuff where you loose your choices because of say thick mec or me getting exhausted etc... Last time I was forced to transfer mid labour because I went thru a Birth center and despite the OB I spoke to a few days before agreeing to it being ok for me to stay there till 42 =3, when in labour the OB didn't and I was made to TF. When I did TF it made me feel like I had lost all control and so I just kinda gave up fighting what was happening to me if that makes sense?? So anyway, not that an OB is going to do that this time. But if there were a clinical problem, where I needed to TF, then I need to get myself to believe that I can still effect changes to my circumstances. I don't just want to give in this time. does that make more sense? I don't want to get hung up on it. I just don't want to be completely un prepared.
xx Bella
PS- hey eutra, thinking of you. Happy birth blessings babe Will be waiting to hear a happy announcement very soon
Bella: thankfully this time, you wont lose any choices as your IM will still be by your side, and they are very very good. Of course, the TF is just theory. I am sending you also, beautiful birth blessings for the time when it comes and am confident that it will go beautifully xx
Eutra: what Bella said....happy birth blessings for the coming days
Will be waiting to hear a happy announcement very soon
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