I didnt need to tf but we had talked a lot about when/when/why/how! I felt calm that the MW new my wishes and i new going into my labour that i trusted her enought that if it got to a point that she said go i would go!

Just think how much we plan all these what if?? and people say that we are not taking the safe options. How many people planning a hospital birth even think through these same situations?

Also try to think of all the reasons why you will not need to tf, there are a million to one positives to neg!

Hey Sarah, enjoy your birth, i look forward to reading your birth story!