Really want a hb but unsupported by DH and family

[veus]

Go with what you feel you need to do for the best birth you want. Like what e_p said, it is your body.

My logic is if i don't tell you when to go to the toilet and do ur business what makes U think u have the right to tell me how to birth. (I've never been known for diplomacy sorry!)

All the best!