I don't think she is playing the dead baby card in that sense. I read it that she is saying that the person obviously felt the need to call an ambulance, and barring there being professional qualified help already on site, then she feels the best course of action is to go to hospital to at least be checked out. Because you know, health professionals have to live with their decisions, and have a tendency to replay things in their heads over and over again. And yes, one bad incident can affect how you deal with future scenarios, so maybe cut her some slack.