I am desperately hoping to be abe to bf next baby, I wasnt able to with Jackson, was never showed how to do it properly and he never learnt as he is an extremely lazy sucker, I was in pain for months and he was not getting enough milk.

I can see myself bf until upto about 18 months, past that I myself would not be comfortable with, but I dont find anything offensive about bf pas 2yo. I do think 8 or 9 years old is going a tad too far! there would definately be some social issues coming into play I would think.