Oh Kim, it is hard. Jack self weaned at about 14 months and I was so sad about it. Especially because it was unexpected too, he dropped one feed at a time, but I thought he would keep having one feed a day forever I think, but one day he just wasn't interested anymore. At least you know she will drink milk from a bottle now so that makes it easier for you if she is self-weaning. I hope it works out for you.