Thanks OceanPrincess.

I have left him for a (short) while with my mum or DH. He is usually OK. Although as soon as he sees me he is desperate for booby!

To be honest, I'm not even sure if I'm completely ready to wean. I think I'm just feeling the pressure from others that clearly don't approve of feeding a 'toddler' rather than a little baby (even though he has only just turned 1). I would like to reduce the feeding, but not cut it out completely....especially because I wouldn't know how to get him to sleep without it!

I have tried some cows milk, which he sort of enjoys, but really he just sips on it and plays with the cup etc. And yes, distraction is a fantastic thing!

How does your DD go to sleep now. Can you just put her in the cot and she self settles?