Everytime I go see a nurse my confidence goes out the window

Last month when Juliette had her six month immunisations I was told to go slow on the solids so she doesn't become overweight.... So we've been doing it slowly, she has a small amount of solids most days (usually a tiny bit of fruit) and is breastfed otherwise.

Today I got her 6-8 month blue book check at the ECHN & have been told something completely different. I was told she should be having only around four breastfeeds per day (she's having 6-10 at the moment) and three solid meals. From what this nurse says, she won't take solids cos she's too full on milk all the time. She said to try her on one solids meal for a week, then two for a week then onto three, even if it's just a teaspoon or two of food, she needs to be started on solids properly.

I was intending on trying to cut out her 1-2 overnight feeds over the next six weeks, Aaron is on holidays & he can try to settle her overnight. I jut feel like having her on three solid meals in three weeks time is really pushing it.

The thing is they all use scare tactics which kill your confidence... The first one said go slow because I could cause her to be obese when she's older. The second said that she'll end up aneamic & have speech issues if she isn't properly started on solids soon. You just can't win.