I know how you feel hun - having been there yesterday and then wondering if I am doing the right thing by my little man... Then I got home, looked at him, saw how happy and content he is, he is growing beautifully, sleeping beautifully, feeding beautifully - what more can I want.... and it sounds like Juliette is doing the same hun. FWIW Izzy was only down to 4 feeds at 12 months time - do what suits you and your baby hun, if she wants 6-8 feeds give them to her. You have heard it before but until 12 mths food is fun, she can explore tastes and textures -who cares how much and what goes in! As far as 3 solid meals go - Izzy doesn't have 3 some days so you just have to go with the flow. You are doing a fabulous job - keep it up.