Thanks for all the info,
The rice milk is a good idea, i hadn't heard that.

Linds - i was also told that my dd could go without the other BF if she was having the 3 solids & water also, but my dd really loves the booby, i don't know how i'll ever wean her! She uses it for comfort sometimes too. I don't really need to go back to work i just thought if they were desperate they could give me a call. I think i would be too worried about her going without the BF so i'm thinking i might just put it off untill she's a bit older.

Suse - i feel like i get better advice from this site than CHN, she is lovely but sometimes i just have to go with my instincts.