Yes I too have similar problems with my mother. My youngest is 14 weeks old and my mum has a go at me because 'I don't let her cry long' and I should be booking into sleep school so they can teach me its ok for her to cry herself to sleep. Mum thinks that BB is to blame - I said to her I am just more informed and have chosen to do things differently this time around. The other week she mentioned I should give her some rice cereal to fill her tummy and make her sleep longer to which I replied I wont be giving her any solids until at least 4 months - the recommended age being 6 months. I have had many an argument with my mum on my parenting vs her parenting and I dont really see it getting any better unless I just stop talking to her about it all together.

Sorry Im not much help xx