Thanks so much girls for the support and feedback.
I am a determined person and the more someone says no, the more likely I am to do it. So he can say stop all he likes. that will just egg me on

I know Tehya will wean when she is ready, and yes it will probably be before I am. She is a very independant little girl and I don't see her wanting boob for another 12 months but I will be more than happy if I can get her to 2.