Dd has started saying no when I ask her if she wants her milk.

She only has 2-3 feeds a day now and they are before she goes to sleep.

Once I sit down and get ready she still takes it, but the lead up is her saying no no no. Today she even had a little crack because I took away her sultanas and its time for bed.

I have a feeling my milk is pretty much non existent on one side and scarce on the other.

Is this how they self wean? By saying no? Do I just start putting her to bed with no breast?

What are the signs they are starting to wean?