Hi Barb,

The meds that i am on are called sixpills, it is more a herbal (chinese) supplement really.
I read on the box that it is not for pregnant or bf mothers.
It was given to me by a Chinese acupunturist. I went there as my af was only 3 weeks apart, quite heavy (lasted 10 days this time too) and my cycles are painfull from ovulation till mid-af.

I have been to the same acupuncturist before I got pregnant with ds, also to relief the periodpain and to help fall pregnant.
She did advise me to stop the bf as to help regulating my cycles. But i was about to let that go in one ear out the other.
I don't mind the weaning, I just wish it was DS making that decision. I bf him with so much love for the past 18 months that it is really hard (emotionally) to force him to wean.
Especially as he is VERY strongwilled.

But even if it turns out that these sixpills are not exactly a danger to him, I'd better not let him go back to bf. I feel like I need to stick with it now as he will use his determination to try and be the boss of me IYKWIM. I need to be really consequent with him. He needs that.

I will just have to find a way with him to help him fall asleep without boobie (he has trouble making the transition from play/exploring to relaxing and falling asleep. He will fight sleep as long as he possibly can and then some)

Thanks for the support and advise!