Another brilliant post Barb, thanks. This is so relevant to me right now too. Though I am trying to cut back on feeds we've been 'reverting' a bit recently as DS has been sick quite a lot. I think my DS can understand that sometimes he gets more milk and sometimes I say no.

A sudden weaning is probably quite a shock to him - are you cutting all feeds out all at once? Could you try cutting back more gradually, over a few weeks, instead? That might be easier on the both of you.

All the best