Hi,

You are right, the need to be consistent with him is forced upon me. I personally try to take things as they come with him and put his needs first.
I already "caved" yesterday. I didn't take the herbs after dinner ( i am supposed to take them after each meal) so I figured my milk should be quite safe for him at around 9pm. He couldn't sleep and missed his boobie. So i figured what the heck. I really miss bf him too.
So I guess I will just be "weak" in other ppls eyes and at least feed him at night if he wants too. Milk should be safe then in the morning too.
It is so healthy for him and bf is such a special time.

Thanks Barb for reminding me of this! And saying it is okay to not always be consistent.
Problem is tho, that DH isn't supportive, he thinks it looks ridiculous to have a toddler on the boob.
O well guess I have to make that HIS problem hey!

Thanks again, it really helped me!