Thanks Sherie, he does seem to go for the boob when he is picked up and it made me so angry when my mil was holding him and it had been a rare occaision of 2 hours since the last feed and he was looking for a boob and I said it was time for a feed and she wouldn't give him back saying I needed a spell . I am just worried I accidently got him into the routine of feeding frequently if I misread his signs in the first week.