On BF in public, I was BF at a conference at the Hyatt in Melbourne the other week, and an older lady who was attending another function smiled at me while I was feeding Flynn and said "what a lovely sight, enjoy every minute of it". I am an ardent lactivist but even so having a nice comment like that lifted my day. I think we should all make it a point to give positive feedback to every BF mother we see, even if it is a knowing smile.