thread: My little man has weaned...

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  1. #1

    Nov 2008
    Country Victoria
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    I don't have an answer to your question but wanted to say congratulations for BF your DS for so long! that's quite an achievement well done

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Feb 2007
    In the jungle.
    4,809

    Well done Rainy! You have done an awsome job feeding your little man. Sorry i don't know the answer to your qn either...... but have wondered the same thing......

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2005
    Blue Mountains
    5,086

    He could well want to pick it up again when the baby comes. Once that yummy newborn milk comes in he might want some of it! Perhaps still offer now & then to remind him he's welcome to it. He might just be weaning because he mightn't be getting much during this stage of your pregnancy.

    Well done on bf'ing so long tho

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
    5,673

    thanks girls

    liz- do you mean to offer ds here and there once the newborn comes along?

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2005
    Blue Mountains
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    I was thinking more of between now & then. Just to keep reminding him he's welcome to it so he doesn't lose the knack. Guess it depends on why he's weaned. If you think he was ready, then I guess just let it be, but if you think the pg has kinda hurried him then perhaps just keep it open so that when the milk is back in fully he still knows what to do. Does that make sense?

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
    5,673

    thanks liz, that is what i thought you meant, just wasn't sure though.
    will i still have milk though? won't it all dry up soon?

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2005
    Blue Mountains
    5,086

    Don't really know. hehe. I would think there'd be colostrum or something there. If it was me I'd probably just offer a sleepy comfort feed now & then I know that there wasn't much there for DS, but he was still feeding to sleep at that stage, so wasn't feeding for the milk, which is probably why he didn't wean. I often wonder if DD would feed through a pregnancy coz she doesn't use feeding for comfort like that, so perhaps once the milk diminished she might give it away.

    I don't really know what advice to give. I can only go by how I would feel if weaning happened for me. I'd still offer it and hope the interest picks up again when bub arrives.

    But it sounds like you wouldn't mind the break between now & then. Perhaps just enjoy that break and see what happens