Michelle, I'm sending you hugs hun I remember going through this with DS1 and I didn't know what to do. The very first thing I found that he liked (yoghurt) he was allergic to! He eats better now, but is still fussier and a smaller eater than his younger brother.

I am going to give you a suggestion, because it's what I wish I now wish I had done with DS1. Don't worry! Offer finger foods (forget the puree, she doesn't need it), and if she doesn't eat, then don't worry. Offer a good variety, pretty much everything you are eating, and also keep offering things she doesn't seem to like (it can take a lot of goes for them to like something). But keep up the variety. Don't stress if she eats nothing at all - the bm is enough until 12 months or so, and when it's not enough, she will eat. I really belief that part of DS1's fussy eating now stems back to me trying to encourage him to eat before he was ready, and also from me giving his favourites over and over just to make sure he ate.

I wish you luck. I am sure she will eat well in time, she just doesn't seem to be ready yet.