its a hard time and a hard decision. I think it cant be a bad thing to let her choose what she wants to do. Sounds like you are listening to her needs and following her lead already. FWIW I struggled to get milk to squirt from me too and I had a huge supply. There are a few threads about increasing supply, so if you arent ready to stop and want to give that a go and then see if your DD is still seeming like shes weaning then at least you know that you tried everything. She wont pull away from you, hun, you are just moving into a new chapter in her precious life